I haven't asked either of my two BFF to be in my bridal party because FI and I have not set a date yet. I was having coffee with one of them (who's wedding I stood up in) and said that if I had her and other friend in my wedding, I'd probably forego the bridesmaid dresses and let them decide on a dress/suit in the wedding colors. She said that she hadn't worn a dress in years and that she probably couldn't buy one because she is now umemployed. While she is more crafty and stated she would help out with that, she would be hurt if I decided on other friend for MOH. (FYI - her husband is working).
I was shocked and hurt. I had planned on having both ladies as MOH's but now I am wondering if I shouldn't have either of them. I was not about to play favorites. I was unemployed at the time she got married and not only did I get the money for the dress, but also helped with the bridal shower. (BTW, I was not expecting a shower in return, and I thought if they picked out their own dress/suit, they could wear it again).
I just needed to get this out....
I was shocked and hurt. I had planned on having both ladies as MOH's but now I am wondering if I shouldn't have either of them. I was not about to play favorites. I was unemployed at the time she got married and not only did I get the money for the dress, but also helped with the bridal shower. (BTW, I was not expecting a shower in return, and I thought if they picked out their own dress/suit, they could wear it again).
I just needed to get this out....