When my fiance got engaged we asked our daughters, his is 23 and mine is 22, to please respect our wishes for no facial piercings or new tatoos. They have older ones which we have talked of covering. We are now 3 weeks from wedding and his daughter went and got a tatoo which states, I shall fear no evil. It is located across her back between her shoulder blades. She has stated to a lot of family members that she doesn't care what we think and she knew we didn't want her to get it but she did it anyways. Well needless to say it has caused a huge uproar and my fiance told her she was no longer in the wedding. Before she had gotten the tatoo her and I had discussed that this might be a possibility. She now doesn't want to understand why we are so upset with her and is even refusing and stating she doesn't even want to be at the wedding and never wanted to. Her son who is 4 who is our grandson is to be our ring bearer but she is refusing to allow him to be there. This is killing us both but especially her dad due to her being so ugly and hurtful about all of this. I just need some advice on what to do. The tatoo can not be covered due to it will be in the scabbing and peeling process at this time, and the custom made dress that my fiance and I paid for for her is a low back dress.
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